The Cultural Identity of the Church of Reality is to be Good People.

• We are Good People - We aspire to be "good people" We see ourselves as productive members of society. We want to be the kind of people who everyone wants to be neighbors with. We want to be considered trustworthy. We want people to say, "Them Realists, they sure is nice folk." We want to be the kind of people that parents want their sons and daughters to get married to. We want to be the kind of people who, when elected to office, people say that all politicians are not crooks because of our responsible behavior. We want property values to go up because there are Realists in the neighborhood. One can debate as to what is good and what is bad but whatever good is, we want to be it. Our cultural identity is to be good people.


• Friendliness - Church of Reality members are generally friendly people. Since we want a world that is safe and secure where the pursuit of reality will flourish and we want people to embrace our love for reality then we should be friendly people. We strive to be the kind of people that everyone would want as part of their communities. We are an easy going culture.


• Being Positive - The Church of Reality is based on being positive. We are a religion that looks towards a brighter future and we have committed ourselves to making sure that we Evolve in a Positive Direction. We are the kind of people who solves problems. We look for the good side and that every encounter in life is an opportunity to learn something new. We see ourselves as being on the bright side of life.


• Common Sense and Wisdom - Common sense and wisdom are overused terms and no one knows what the really mean but everyone wants it, and we do too. Common sense is having a firm grasp of the obvious and resisting the temptations to just go along to get along. Common sense means to apply reality to your decision making process and to rely on logic and reason. Wisdom is sort of advanced common sense. Taking the not so obvious and figuring out what's right. We are a clear thinking culture.


• Generosity - Our world view is the Philosophy of the Open Hand. The evolutionary success of humanity has been in our ability to be collective and help one another. We are generous with others and when we have needs others are generous with us. We take care of each other and we are taken care of. Generosity allows us not only to survive but to thrive. We are all connected and interdependent and the more we give the more we all have. The Church of Reality is an Altruistic culture.


• Being Interested and Interesting - We are a religion of curious people. We want to know things. We want to know how everything works. We want to take things apart and put them back together, to build new things, to explore. We also value being interesting people. To be interesting is to give back to the interested because without interesting people there would be no one for the interested to be interested in.


• Smart - In the Church of Reality it's cool to be smart. We are a religion of thinkers. We explore reality with our minds. We like using logic and reason as our way of determining what is true and what isn't. We are innovative. We are the kind of people who solves problems. We find a way to make things work. To us every problem has a solution. We like to use our brains. We value education.


• Creativity - We are a creative and innovative culture who always seeks new and creative ways to accomplish things. We are a culture of builders, inventors, philosophers, artists, and musician.


• Openmindedness - Most every idea presented is worth thinking about. Even if it is clearly a bad idea to start with if you think about it there may be something in there that makes a good point. For example, if someone said, "Cannibalism - the solution to global warming.", you might instantly reject the idea. However if you think about it you might get the real point about overpopulation. We are a culture who is not afraid to explore new ideas or to think about bad ideas for the purpose of seeing if there's anything good that can be extracted. Or to at least try to understand the person presenting the idea. By listening to and thinking about the ideas of others we set and example and open the door to them thinking about our ideas.


• Skepticism - The Church of Reality is a Show Me Religion. We aren't the kind of people who just believe what is written in some ancient book without evidence. Our world view is that truth is purified through Scrutiny and we question everything. The only thing that Realists just "accept" is that the pursuit of the understanding of reality as it really is has value.


• Enthusiasm - We try to bring some excitement into what we do. We are a people who are passionate about being Realists and seeing what we can accomplish.


• Visionary - We are a culture that is focused on making the future better for all the people of the world. We use our imagination to envision a better tomorrow and we figure out a plan to make it happen.


• Resourcefulness - We are a culture of people who are diligent. We make things happen. If we are faced with a problem it is our job to find a solution. We don't accept that something can't be done. Our view is that we are still working on it and we'll eventually find a way to make it work. (Like the idea of starting a religion based on reality which many people believe isn't possible.) Impossible is just another word for challenge. If someone does the impossible, we might give them an ego treat.


• Honesty - Since the Church of Reality is about reality we have a higher requirement for honesty than most religions. Especially intellectual honesty. The pursuit of reality as it really is is like the disciplines of scientific principles and are designed to help us understand science. If you cheat when doing scientific research then you fail to get good scientific knowledge and discovery stops. The same is true for Realism. If we try to redefine the facts to fit what we want to believe then we aren't trying to understand reality but rather justify what we want to believe in.
  
  A classic example is the biblical story that the world was created in six days. When you confront a believer about it they might say, "Well, a day to God might be 1000 years." That's not an honest argument because it's an attempt to undermine reality by taking liberties with definitions. For us in the Church of Reality that isn't honest. We accept the proven and reject the disproven. Our religion is meaningless if we start playing with definitions and other sort of trickery to avoid the truth. That's why our Sacred Principles include the Principle of Honesty and Integrity, the Principle of Reason, the principle of Wisdom, and the Principle of Bullshit.
  
  We believe that personal honesty is good too. Although everyone lies and sometimes you have to lie to get along in society, we feel that it is our role to lean strongly towards being honest people. We not only should tell the truth but we should be prepared to listen to the truth from others. If we don't allow people to speak the truth and we punish them for doing so then we shouldn't be surprised when they lie to us.


• Personal Integrity - Integrity is a broad concept that includes honesty. It also includes responsibility and activism. A person of Integrity is someone who you can count on to get the job done, to be there, and to be a person that others can count on. Integrity means doing what's right or refusing to do what's wrong. We are a culture of honorable people.


• Being Responsible - The Church of Reality is a religion about responsibility. We are what we do, not what we believe in. We take responsibility for our actions and we are mindful of the consequences of our actions. We avoid being reckless and irresponsible. We try to be dependable. We consider ourselves to be accountable for our actions.


• Being Respectful - We value being respectful of others. We see ourselves as a community that includes everyone and that we should get along in the world in as peaceful and productive manner. Our world view is that other's are considered to be good people. We call this Original Virtue. People don't listen to you if you are disrespectful of them. We respect others by really listening to what they have to say and hope that if we listen to them then they will listen to us and we can have meaningful communication about reality. We try to be polite to people. We as Realists try to adopt a respectful attitude in the hopes that being respectful will become the social norm.


• Equality - Women in the Church of Reality are fully equal to men. We don't force women into artificial roles, make women wear special clothing, or limit their role in society. Women are free in our culture.


• Humility - The ego can turn into a highly addictive and expensive habit. As compared to the vastness of the universe how important are we? We redirect the ego into exploring and accomplishment. We tend to take pride in what we collectively accomplish rather than what we accomplish individually.


• Compassion and Empathy - We care for one another. We try to put ourselves in the shoes of others so that we can understand how we would want to be treated in the same circumstances. We look at ourselves as being part of the greater we where we realize that we are all one planet and one people and what we allow to happen to other people is something that could happen to us.


• Awareness - We are a culture who likes to stay informed and be aware of what's going on in the world.


• Involvement - We are and active and involved culture. We are not the kind of people who sit around and let everyone else take care of the world. We are a hard working culture of people who make things happen. We are a culture who is active and motivated.


• Leadership - We aspire to be leaders rather than followers. To be a leader to us means that we have taken the responsibility to think things through and to come up with a plan for action that is well thought out and based on realistic goals and expectations. It also means that we have developed the social skills to work well with others and create an environment of respect and teamwork. We don't always have to be the one in charge. But we consider it a positive trait to have the capability of being in charge and being a good leader. We think that people who put reality first are more likely to make better decisions than people who don't.


• Tollerance and Inclusiveness - We are a culture of people who reaches out to people who are different than ourselves. We realize that not everyone in the world is like us and we are all here on this planet together. We need not only to get along but to thrive together. We create bridges, not barriers. We play nice with other people and expect other's to play nice with us. Our world view is inclusive and understanding in nature.


• Charm - We make our culture so likable that even people who hate us can't help but to like and admire us.


• Kindness and Gentleness - We are a kind and gentle culture who seeks to live our lives in joy and peace.


• Fairness, Ethics and Justice - We try to treat people the way we would want to be treated. By protecting the rights of others our rights are protected. We try not to take more than our fair share and seek equitable solutions. We are a culture of ethical people who think that we can all get along better in a just society with opportunity for everyone..


• Forgiveness - Realists try not to hold a grudge forever. We try to get over it and move on.


• Gratitude - We try to show appreciation and thankfulness for what we have and what others give us.


• Individualism and Self Ownership - We are a culture where the individual thinks for themselves. We think in terms of, "I am me. I am unique. This is who I am. This is my life. I am my own person. I make my own choices. I am writing my life story. This is who I want to be. These are my dreams. These are my goals. My preferences. My personality. My rights. My responsibilities. My family. My children. My problems. My dignity. My feelings. My property. My home. My data. My blog. My projects. I have my own skills. I have my own ideas. This is what I want to wear. I vote for whoever I want to. It's my body. My medicine. My vision. My memories. My privacy. My religion. My politics. My computers. My history. My time. My routine. My schedule. My associates. My community. My role in society. My self respect. My personal values. My moral decisions. My food. My information. My identity. My self esteem. Stay out of my business. I make my own decisions. I have my own friends. I choose my own relationships. I choose my own life partners. I control my reproduction. I choose the form of my own death. I think my own thoughts. I control my own destiny. I own myself. My life is important to me. Don't tell me to stand up to authority." We are a culture that embraces personal liberty.


• Courage and Fortitude - If Realists are going to change the world and make tomorrow better than today we have to have the courage to act. If we are part of a group who is about to do something wrong then we don't just go along to get along. Sometime reality requires that we make the hard choices to do what we know is the right thing to do. We are the kind of people who aspire to be the ones that others count on in an emergency to have the courage make the right choices.


• Discipline - We are a culture that puts value on taking control of one's own life and not allowing our emotional impulses to rule our lives.


• Legacy - Since the Church of Reality doesn't have an afterlife all that remains after we are gone is our Life Story and what we have contributed to human culture in a way that it worth remembering. We want history to record that we did something useful with our lives and that our existence made a the world a better place.


• Humor - Not all people are funny, if you are that's a plus in the Church of Reality.